Monday, October 4, 2010
Are you concerned that your man may be a Womanizer?
Let's talk about the terms for a minute. A Womanizer enjoys conquering and hurting women. In spite of appearances, they don't like women. Womanizers are unlikely to leave many female fans in their wake.
A couple of hundreds years ago, Womanizers were called "men of high gallantry" In other words, this pleasant little euphemism meant that "boy will be boys". The label attached to women who enjoyed a variety of men (or were thought to) was not quite so pleasant. Men who fall into these categories are frequently unable or unwilling to change. The thrill of the pursuit is simply too addictive to abandon.
Do you have a Womanizer in your life?
They are charming and attractive. They are concerned about their appearance, possibly quite vain, and socially at ease. They, too, must be able to read a woman's personality with very little exposure to her. They must understand what she wants from a man and give it to her- temporarily. Remember, these men do not value long-term relationships.
They are often shallow and unable to establish and maintain an emotionally intimate relationship with a woman.
Next time you attend a party, watch the good looking, self-confident, well-dressed man working the room. You will notice he is talking to the loveliest woman, and he is standing close (within their space), peering into their eyes. The woman are speaking in low voices and laughing.
Peggy Vaughan, author of The monogamy Myth, estimates that 60% of husbands will have an affair at some point in their marriage. This, of course, does not include the men who are marathon daters and are not married. No doubt, the online dating service are littered with them. For them, numbers matter; home and hearth do not.
Woman are naturally attracted to the bad-boy image of the Womanizer. Remember what Mom said about playing with fire? It can be exhilarating knowing that we can lose our footing and fall at any moment, as we desperately balance on the edge of the inferno.
Logically, if a handsome, desirable man sweeps you off your feet, you are probably not his first conquest. I can also you will not be his last! A man can have an affair or pursue more than one relationship without being a Womanizer.
Womanizer will exhibit the following criteria:
Intelligent, Persuasive, Pleasant easygoing manner, Likes and enjoy the company of women, Attractive and well-dressed, Convincing liar, Can be temperamental and cruel, Does not like and respect women and May take advantage of women for gain.
The Womanizer is reminiscent of old-fashion gigolo!
"Many of us spend our whole lives running from feeling with the mistaken belief that you cannot bear the pain. But you have already borne the pain. What you have not done is feel all you are beyond the pain"
Love Always Anna Anka
Publié par Anna Anka à l'adresse 8:58 PM