Sexual Fireworks

For many of us, the desire to recapture that early-stage passion in a long-term
relationship can lead to disappointment and stalemate. It's all too easy to start believing that there is only one kind of good sex. And if that's no longer happening then the relationship, or the choice of partner, must be wrong for us. And even if we do manage to reach sexual nirvana some of the time, this can soon be followed by the sense of feeling weirdly depleted afterwards. The solution then, might be to opt for "warm sex" softer, nurturing physical intimacy leading to slow, gentle intercourse where orgasm happens only occasionally.
One reason we might shy away from this type of sex is that human sexuality is battling with two conflicting drives- on the one hand there are sexual fireworks and the reproductive urge, and at odds with this is what's known as the bonding programme. It's this softer type of bonding that can soothe our "mating" hunger without causing us to exhaust our sexual attraction for each other.

Today's Wisdom:

"Love is an element which though physically unseen is real as air or water. It is an acting living moving force..... it moves in waves and currents like those of the ocean"

Love Always Anna Anka