Resentment

The problem with living in the PAST is that it inhibits change
and is therefore inherently pessimistic!
To acknowledge that we have been harmed by another
but choose to let go of our resentment or wishes for
retribution requires a high order of emotional and ethical maturity.

We are all burdened by memories of injury or rejection or unfairness.
Holding on to these grievances with a bitter determination that causes
both of you to become preoccupied with ME.
Both of you need to stop holding me responsible for your unhappiness!
You need to move on with your life. The only people who will suffer
from this are the children! They are innocent!
They deserve a fair childhood! They need their mother!

If every misfortune can be blamed on me, you are relieved of the
difficult task of examining your own contributory behavior.

Coming to terms with your past is inevitably a process of forgivness,
of letting go, the simplest and most difficult of all human endeavor.

Elli & Ethan Mamma Love & Miss You!

Today's Wisdom:

"He who knows all the answers has not yet been asked
all the questions"

Love Always Anna Anka