Children have the right to give and receive love from both parents!
Do you know what happens to a tree if you cut off it's roots?
Hatred does not come naturally to a child it needs to be thought.
Unjustified hatred is an act of evil it damages the children for life.
Conflicts, control, revenge issues problem steams from serious mental health problems!
Large population of alienating parents are personality disordered individuals and as such they have no insight to the harm they cause to their own child. They don't follow court orders, they stall for time to be able to brainwash their children! They use professionals only if it will further their own aims or they dismiss or fight against any professionals that do not take their side including their own lawyers and same professions that give them the seeds of knowledge either wittingly or unwittingly to achieve their goals. Alienating parents often use collaborative professionals to manipulate their former spouses into flawed agreements.
When life puts me in though situations I don't say:
"Why me?" I say "Try me"
One thing you will never be able to take away from me is my endless love for my children!
Please don't learn to believe that you deserve to be punished and that you don't deserve to be treated with respect! My fear is that you will become used to being treated badly and you are not going to know what it is like to be treated well!
Love is not:
Controlling contact with family and friends.
Giving orders, making all the decisions not take your opinion or your feelings into consideration.
Worry about the reaction to things you say or do.
Blame you when things go wrong.
Lose your self-esteem, confidence and control.
To leave you if you don't obey.
Threatening to stop what you love to do if you don't obey.
Pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
Manipulate or quilt trip you by saying:
"if you really loved me you would......"
Please don't question yourself by saying:
"What am I doing that is so wrong? I can't be that bad?"
During a traumatic event our logic is turned off and our nervous system automatically goes
into a survival mode Fight, Flight or Freeze response.
This is an animal instinct to feign death so an attacker will lose interest!
When psychological pain becomes to much to tolerate the mind distance
itself from the experience by numbing the body and the psyche which is called
Personally for me abusive people are treated as nothing other than
oversized bacteria with destructive properties!
One thing you did not know about me is: I love when people are trying to bring me down.
I am proud of it because for me it confirms that I am above them :)
Here we are...who have a way of getting on with our lives.
The reason that I cant stay don't have a thing to do with not loving you!
I understand that loving me shouldn't have to be this rough.
You are not the only one who feels like this world left you far behind.
I remember every time I said I never leave...but what I cant live with is memories of the way you used to be. I don't understand why you have to be angry all the time?
When all or tears have reached the sea a part of you will always live in me.
Way down deep inside my heart. Remember me when you are out walking..
Late at night when you are not sleeping. Please remember me.
Assumptions are the most dangerous form of knowledge.
They are accepted without even knowing it! They enable you to buy a lie
without even knowing it, by buying all the assumptions.
I am still standing and I am going to keep standing. Right here as your lies unfold!
I know the truth is on my side and as time passes the truth will be known and the
liar will face the consequences of that truth.
Liars that intentionally lie to hurt others suffer major character flaws and personal insecurities which prevent them from admitting their actions were wrong! These kind of liars are individuals who typically have lost their way in life and suffer from issues related to anger and enjoy bringing pain to those they can hurt with their lies. Most individuals who lie intentionally to hurt others have a very difficult time coping with reality. The liars are most likely to be narcissists or sociopaths that are incapable of empathizing with others and in strong need of serious mental health intervention.
I feel sorry for them as what they have produced in the world will inevitably come back to them.
in time they too will suffer from their condition.
In spite of having tragedy in my life, I do all I can to share love with others.
When all is said and done and the dust has settled in, I ask myself....
Did I feel all the love I was given?
Did I give life my optimum?
Did I love all my maximum?
In solitude while dealing with the pain of losing my daughter.
I found something. Something I can not teach anyone else to find.
Something that came from inside me.That something is peach of mind.
The strength I have found there is unequaled to any other sense of
contentment I have ever known.
Being content with myself brings the inner peace to love life!
I truly believe that most of us are equipped to handle all our problems
no matter how severe they may seem at the moment!
Anna Anka has been pushing herself her entire life. Her failures in life were the starting point of her success. Her fame came at a heavy price both personally and professionally. Becoming a household name overnight was something Anna Anka never encountered before.
Anna Anka has faced a lot of crossroads in her life filed with uncertainty and fear. Due to so many people manage her with intimidation both physical, mentally and emotionally. People are obsessed over to try finding flaws and imperfections, rather than find value in Anna Anka. They have such fixed beliefs about themselves, others and life’s circumstances that have been repeated for so long, they have become so ingrained and are very difficult to change. Anna Anka understands that most people feel such a lack of satisfaction with their own life. Because of that they try to level her. Anna Anka hopes that they would try to build their own sense of self-worth. What you see of Anna Anka is a snapshot of her life. Snapshots don’t show the million decisions that led to that moment.