Love is not:
Controlling contact with family and friends.
Giving orders, making all the decisions not take your opinion or your feelings into consideration.
Worry about the reaction to things you say or do.
Blame you when things go wrong.
Lose your self-esteem, confidence and control.
To leave you if you don't obey.
Threatening to stop what you love to do if you don't obey.
Pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
Manipulate or quilt trip you by saying:
"if you really loved me you would......"
Please don't question yourself by saying:
"What am I doing that is so wrong? I can't be that bad?"
During a traumatic event our logic is turned off and our nervous system automatically goes
into a survival mode Fight, Flight or Freeze response.
This is an animal instinct to feign death so an attacker will lose interest!
When psychological pain becomes to much to tolerate the mind distance
itself from the experience by numbing the body and the psyche which is called
Personally for me abusive people are treated as nothing other than
oversized bacteria with destructive properties!
One thing you did not know about me is: I love when people are trying to bring me down.