Wednesday, August 20, 2014

School starting

This was your first summer break you were not allowed to spend with us because it was taken away from you :( I know it hurt you tremendously and I know the little voice inside you is asking why?
I am so sorry! One day you will get the answers you are looking for.

Another wonderful school year is about to start. You will learn new things and become very smart.
This will be your first day @ your new school :) I am sorry I am not there with you :(

Remember to smile and remember to laugh even though you are suffering with pain.
You will meet new friends and have so much fun. Stick to your values you personally vowed.
With patience and time you will locate your crowed.
Remember to physically and mentally train. It all begins with your beautiful brain!

Good Luck 2 you mamas loppelina

Hugs & Kisses from all of us.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

My thoughts

I am sending you 3 little hearts to remind you 3 things: 
I am here for you
I care for you
I miss you

My thoughts are free to go anywhere but it is surprising how often they head your direction ;)

Love 2 You

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Kidnapped mind

I will always welcome you back in my life with no questions. 
I always enjoyed your company and your take on things. 
You are my daughter and you are a part of me. 
I am just going to ask you to not throw that away please be open minded. 
The reality is I am your mother and I want to be involved in your life. 
Please hear me when I say: I am not going anywhere! 
Please see through the nonsense and the lies.
I am so sorry for all the suffering you have to go through.
I know you still love me and want to see me, but I understand that you are painted 
into a corner and is doing what you think you have to do in order to survive and 
experience that is as painful for you as it is for me. 
Whatever else changes REAL love does not.

I promise you I will see you soon

Love always din mamma 

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Teaching children to Hate

Children have the right to give and receive love from both parents!

Do you know what happens to a tree if you cut off it's roots? 

Hatred does not come naturally to a child it needs to be thought.

Unjustified hatred is an act of evil it damages the children for life.

Conflicts, control, revenge issues problem steams from serious mental health problems!

Large population of alienating parents are personality disordered individuals and as such they have no insight to the harm they cause to their own child. They don't follow court orders, they stall for time to be able to brainwash their children! They use professionals only if it will further their own aims or they dismiss or fight against any professionals that do not take their side including their own lawyers and same professions that give them the seeds of knowledge either wittingly or unwittingly to achieve their goals. Alienating parents often use collaborative professionals to manipulate their former spouses into flawed agreements.

When life puts me in though situations I don't say: 
"Why me?" I say "Try me"


One thing you will never be able to take away from me is my endless love for my children!

Sunday, July 20, 2014

Punished

Please don't learn to believe that you deserve to be punished and that you don't deserve to be treated with respect! My fear is that you will become used to being treated badly and you are not going to know what it is like to be treated well!

Love is not:

Controlling contact with family and friends.
Giving orders, making all the decisions not take your opinion or your feelings into consideration.
Worry about the reaction to things you say or do.
Blame you when things go wrong.
Lose your self-esteem, confidence and control.
To leave you if you don't obey.
Threatening to stop what you love to do if you don't obey.
Pressure you to do things you don't want to do.
Manipulate or quilt trip you by saying: 
"if you really loved me you would......"

Please don't question yourself by saying:
"What am I doing that is so wrong? I can't be that bad?"

During a traumatic event our logic is turned off and our nervous system automatically goes
into a survival mode Fight, Flight or Freeze response.
This is an animal instinct to feign death so an attacker will lose interest!
When psychological pain becomes to much to tolerate the mind distance 
itself from the experience by numbing the body and the psyche which is called
dissociation.

Personally for me abusive people are treated as nothing other than
oversized bacteria with destructive properties!

One thing you did not know about me is: I love when people are trying to bring me down.
I am proud of it because for me it confirms that I am above them :)







Monday, July 14, 2014

If you are reading this

Here we are...who have a way of getting on with our lives.
The reason that I cant stay don't have a thing to do with not loving you!
I understand that loving me shouldn't have to be this rough.
You are not the only one who feels like this world left you far behind.
I remember every time I said I never leave...but what I cant live with is memories of the way you used to be. I don't understand why you have to be angry all the time?

When all or tears have reached the sea a part of you will always live in me.
Way down deep inside my heart. Remember me when you are out walking..
Late at night when you are not sleeping. Please remember me.

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Pernicious lie

Assumptions are the most dangerous form of knowledge.
They are accepted without even knowing it! They enable you to buy a lie
without even knowing it, by buying all the assumptions.

I am still standing and I am going to keep standing. Right here as your lies unfold!
I know the truth is on my side and as time passes the truth will be known and the
liar will face the consequences of that truth.

Liars that intentionally lie to hurt others suffer major character flaws and personal insecurities which prevent them from admitting their actions were wrong! These kind of liars are individuals who typically have lost their way in life and suffer from issues related to anger and enjoy bringing pain to those they can hurt with their lies. Most individuals who lie intentionally to hurt others have a very difficult time coping with reality. The liars are most likely to be narcissists or sociopaths that are incapable of empathizing with others and in strong need of serious mental health intervention.

I feel sorry for them as what they have produced in the world will inevitably come back to them.
in time they too will suffer from their condition.